The writer reflects on their inability to cry despite feeling a range of emotions. They explore emotional suppression, alexithymia, medication effects, trauma, and cultural conditioning as possible reasons. Drawing parallels with the concept of the “eightfold fence,” they recognize their emotional boundaries and express a desire for self-reflection and emotional release.
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Quadriplegic Product Review: ibot PMD
The author, a quadriplegic, shares his experiences with adaptive technology, specifically the ibot Personal Mobility Device (PMD). He highlights its innovative features, like climbing stairs and multiple modes for diverse terrains. Despite some drawbacks, he praises its impact on his independence and appreciates the customer support from Mobius Mobility in enhancing his quality of life.
Alive-versary Year 9
The author reflects on their transformative journey since their “Alive Day” nine years ago, emphasizing resilience and the value of daily miracles. They express gratitude for love, friendship, and modern medicine, as they prepare to welcome twin boys after a successful IVF process. The piece highlights perseverance, hope, and embracing life’s challenges.
My Complicated Relationship With Sleep
The author reflects on the challenges of sleep as a quadriplegic, noting its importance for health and well-being. Past experiences of effortless sleep have changed into struggles with discomfort and care routines. Despite occasional restful nights, the author expresses a sense of dread towards bedtime, feeling it has become unproductive and taxing.
2025 Review: Thanks For Visiting
The author transitioned their blog, Life Keeps Rolling, to a new platform, Limp Wrist Art, to better showcase their artwork and graphic design. With 6,000 views in 2025, engagement through authentic interactions exceeded expectations. Advocacy posts gained significant interest, reflecting the importance of disability discussions, while professional opportunities emerged from the rebranding.
All I Want For Christmas
The author reflects on the significance of Christmas and the impact of their long-distance relationship with his wife. By merging family traditions, creating shared ornaments, and prioritizing time together during holidays, they built a strong bond. After a decade of Christmases together, gratitude for their enduring love remains central to their holiday spirit.
Giving Tuesday: How Volunteering Has Shaped My Life
Giving Tuesday, established in 2012, is a global day for generosity, occurring after Thanksgiving, to encourage support for meaningful causes. This movement fosters community involvement and philanthropy. The author shares personal experiences of receiving aid after injury, emphasizing the fulfillment found in giving back and the profound impact of collective generosity on individual lives.
Balancing Hope and Realism in Spinal Cord Injury Research
The journey through spinal cord injury recovery highlights the fluctuating landscape of potential treatments, from stem cell therapy to gene therapy, brain-computer interfaces, and pharmaceutical advancements. While optimism drives hope for breakthroughs, realistic expectations are essential. Finding balance between faith in science and current life circumstances fosters resilience and preparedness for future opportunities.
Barbed Wire Sickness and the Psychology of Disability
Viktor Frankl’s “Man’s Search for Meaning” highlights his pioneering concept of Logotherapy, emphasizing the human pursuit of purpose even amidst suffering. The book draws parallels between “barbed wire sickness,” linked to wartime trauma, and the experiences of individuals with disabilities, illustrating how isolation affects mental health and underscoring the resilience derived from meaning.
Disability Protections in Air Travel Have Been Grounded
A hard-fought rule meant to protect wheelchair users in air travel is now in limbo. Airlines sued to block it, and the Trump administration folded. Instead of enforcing basic rights, they paused protections. This isn’t just policy reversal—it’s a betrayal of disabled travelers who deserve accountability, not excuses.